Game:
The Sims and The Sims2
The Sims and The Sims2 are role playing games and powerful life simulations. The player takes the role of a character they choose and works to improve that person's life, through things, friendships, relationships, etc. Some refer to it as a "dollhouse" simulation. It is mostly a single player game, in which players create (and post online if they like) their own particular fantasies.
You can use The Sims to initiate conversations about serious life issues with your child and to discuss difficult issues in a non-judgemental way. Examples of questions you might ask a player include:
1. Why do you like this game? Will you show me what your characters do in the game?
2. How do the lives of the characters in the game differ from your life?
3. What are your characters'dreams and aspirations. What are your dreams and aspirations?
4. What things can't you control about your characters' lives?
Read an interview with The Sims creator Wiil Wright here
The Sims could be used as a starting point for a discussion on identity. You could use the game to tackle such challenging issues as personal identity, diversity, and personal, family, and local history.
1. Who are the characters you create? How do they differ from who you are?
2. Why do you "make" them do the things you do?
3. What ethnic group are they part of?
4. Do you treat your male and female character differently? Do they act differently?
GamesParentsTeachers asked UK gamer Helen Chamberlain, 11, about The Sims:
Q: So, what is The Sims about?
A: You can create families and build and decorate their houses. Then you control their lives by telling them when to cook, go to the toilet, get a job, go to school, get dressed, and even sleep.
Q: What do you like about the game?
A: I like the game because it lets me create funny people and I feel in control of their lives.
Q: Have you learned anything about the real world while playing the game?
A: How to make good relationships. How to budget money. How to get enough sleep and food. How to get to work on time.
Q: What do you wish your parents or teachers knew about this game?
A: I wish my teachers and parents knew that The Sims games are suitable for children of several ages, not just over 12s like it says on the box.
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